Love is patient, Love is kind,It does not envy, it does not boast,It is not proud, It is not rude,It is not self-seeking,It is not easily angered,It keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil,but rejoices with the truth.Love always protects, always trusts,always hopes, always perseveres.Love bears all things, believes all things,hopes all things, endures all things.Love never ends.L o v e N e v e r F a i l s.
But many of times love fails us deeply, that it nearly scarred..or perhaps still is the unhealed wound..
Can you live up to loving someone?Can you really love somebody forever..like those cheezy tagline they used in movie "..for eternity..till death do us a apart"..Then again the word "I love you" has been said again and again..but did it mean something? Or was that just a gesture..a saying that you just used it so blindly without knowing what it meant..exploited and misused..
How can we love someone so much and yet simultaneously despite the things that they do, the way they do their hair, their unacceptable habits, the way the dresses..but yet the statement written bold that "i am so head over heels with this person"..Well there is a saying from Romeo & Juliet "My only love sprung from my only hate" or shall it be Def Leppard's song be " When love and hate collides"..
So here i am trying to bluffed my way through as the love philosopher..i may not be the guru but trust me i went through so much shit from relationships and break-ups, that i can wrapped the experience up and write a book...But of course thank God that with the strength, support and love from my friends and families it surely made me strong enough to endure some seriously shitty time..Felt so defeated back then in the name of love...
So where is my point? Well i came to realise that you aint know love and the big meaning to it till you experience the low and peak..Yea you can look up the dictionary and search for it and says "Ohh i know what it means.. " but is through experiences you learn..as painful as some of them can be..but you will eventually learn the big meaning..a person once told me when i broke up with my guy and was so despair to it..like i cant live another day..he ask me this"Do you know what is love? Love is about letting go everything, all expectations, is about accepting the person..as who he/she is, is about forgiving and forgetting all the wrong things.." So i eventually move on and realise that i wasn't ready to do so for my guy and it has not reach that ultimate peak to define that i truly "love" the guy..ooppss..yea..some of you would probably start guessing and thinking which guy is this..but my advise give up! It was a long long time ago..that i barely knew what was giving and accepting was. Yea was too selfish to even look at that..was a fool then..and perhaps a smaller fool now..
Remember that everyone goes through the ups and downs..at times the person you love might not love you back, or it could be someone that you will not see again..SO BE GLAD if you had the chance to love someone and get to be loved back..at least for that lil while..it may not be lasting but is the memories that will stayed in the heart..
"The biggest reward in life come from the biggest challenge..and you will be so guilty and should be shot dead to let a dead end relationship to linger way past the shelf life"..think about overdue can food and the result of engulfing the whole can food..Ewww gross..and a week of hospitalization..
So wake up,smell the fresh air..(imagination)..and how the world aint such a bad place to be just because some guy dump you last night, or some guy cheated you..be glad that is over and that you are living in the drama..is his bet, his lost..someday,somehow he would realise what an idiot he was..what a fool.In relationship, we bound to create fools out of ourself..like letting go someone special, taking one for granted, saying things that we don't mean....
hope the message here has been an inspiration and warmth the hearts of those broken souls..cos i was once a lost ould, wounded and crushed..but i survive and so will you...*hugs*
..to be continued
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